My girlfriend doesn t want to have sex with me

But first, an email from a guy who is going through this exact same problem. About six months ago my girlfriend started making excuses every time I tried to kiss her or get close to her. She would tell me that she was busy or that she was feeling tired. I tried doing things around the house to make her feel better and less stressed. I would clean the house for her and do all the cooking and cleaning but she still said she was tired and stressed out from work. Bottom line: failing a serious hormonal imbalance, if your girlfriend is attracted to you, she will have sex with you.

Click the button below for more info. June 12th, by Nick Notas 27 Comments. Everywhere I look, people preach that passionless long-term relationships and marriages are inevitable. Women supposedly lose their desires while men are forever frustrated. They claim you have to accept your miserable fate and learn to laugh about it. There are so many couples where both parties feel unfulfilled. And it got me thinking…why is that?

Welcome to You Need Help! Or we at least try. She has also been uninterested in oral sex throughout our entire relationship. It feels very fundamental for me. Do I continue to sacrifice my own needs in order to stay in this relationship where I am undesired, or do I end a relationship with so much love and care for the other?

People say communication is the key to a successful relationship. Before you start feeling too lousy about yourself, know there are some much more complex issues at play. Acknowledging these complications is the first step to starting the discussion. Parents with their baby iStock. Worrying about your 3-year old hearing the two of you going at it definitely puts a damper on things.